Almost daily I observe a girl in the office come over to ask a boy something she really doesnt' need to ask. It's pretty clear to me, and the other girls sitting around that she wants something she's not asking for. Why it has to be so complicated, why who you like never seems to like you and vice versa, I don't know.
I was recently told a story about a wedding in which the groom claimed his ex was the best friend (female) and had to be the best man. OK odd, but whatever. Not only did she dawn a tux and stand as the best man, they had a dance just for them. I think at this point the bride exited stage left. Boys; let me just say this, girls 99.9% of the time can not be friends with you after sleeping with you on a regular basis. It's just them sticking around in hopes the guy will someday realize she was the one all along. Girls; this will not happen. He will pity you, he will be nice to you in hopes that something comes along to divert your attention -and maybe he will even be slightly jealous if it does- but he won't want you. You can't love people you pity. I can't tell you how to not love someone, I think it's best just to keep trying to find someone you can put that love onto that can return it, even if you secretly hope everyday that he might come back and want you again.
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She even wore a tux? I can't think of anything more bizarre to torture your new wife with.
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